Lessons Learned from ‘The’ Brad Pit from his Custody War with ‘The’ Angelina

Brad Pitt’s strategy in getting his kids back is what I call the coiled approach. A snake’s coil is the perfect combination of defense and offence. The retreat to a coil prepares its body for an attack and the coil provides the force to strike. Don’t ask if I regularly call my clients snakes. That’s beside the point.

In 2016, at the outset of the divorce litigation, Angelina accused Brad of being dangerous in an effort to reduce his access to their six children. Brad could have responded that he is no more dangerous than the drinking, pot smoking, partier he was when Angelina stole him from Jennifer Anniston. They could have argued for days in court about what constitutes emotional abuse of a child. That knee jerk response would be a point well taken but ultimately a swing-and-a-miss, accomplishing nothing except to frame Brad as a defensive and argumentative father.

Instead, Brad coiled up and got sober. He went to therapy and confessed his weaknesses to Rolling Stone and People among other publications. Who doesn’t want a father who is willing to take a look at the man in the mirror? Ew, probably should not cite anything Michael Jackson. (gag)

Two years after filing for divorce, and with Brad sober and well coiled, Angelina became increasingly more difficult. Her demands became petty, drowning out any normal concerns that may still exist. She reportedly will not allow Brad access to the kids via phone or without a therapist present. For real? Brad was cleared of all allegations. What’s with the irrational demands?  No wonder he drank so much. It wasn’t until the Court threatened to award Brad custody of the 6 kids, that she pulled herself together to comply with the Court’s orders.

Having overcome the initial allegations without being defensive, Brad now controls the stage when it’s time for the final act. Angelina is now on the defensive just as their three years’ divorce is closing. Brad gets to have the last word as the curtains close. Well played Mr. Pitt.